Re: narcissim in my life

I am really sorry to hear that. The circumstances.

If you are disabled, and she terrorizes or abuses you because she knows she can and that NO ONE can or WILL ever hold her accountable....just remember--GOD SEES.

EVERYTHING.

It is a great comfort to me and helps me keep my tongue. *I* must be held accountable for what comes out of my mouth, alone. I'm responsible for ME.

My NPD is abusive in that since HE makes all the money (has robbed ME of that ability with the migraines from head injuries)....then HE is BigCheese. "YOU have no value; *I* have value"..............can you imagine?? He said that to me so matter-of-factly!

(So just do your mental exercises to stay sane. Like "translate" in your brain. When my NPDer said that to me, a card came in the mail THAT DAY that said, "YOUR VALUE COMES FROM GOD!" Whoa. Hello. Thank you, Lord. I hear ya! Woohoo 700 Club!

Sort of translated in my lil ol' brain to, "Au contraire. I DO have value and you're just being an ***hole!" LOL. Tweet