Re: What would you do?

"ps. Our relationship is better since she got pregnant; seems that one big doubt in her mind was whether I wanted to have children with her."

This statement made me wonder if you have considered a physical instead of mental problem. I went through hell until my hormones straightened out. Is she a big caffiene and Sugar addict? http://www.doctoryourself.com/caffeine2.html

I had alot of the same symptoms you are talking about. I really felt insane most of the time. I only felt normal.. human.. in touch with reality while I was pregnant and nursing. Apparently, estrogen is boosted during pregancy and nursing. See if you can get her into cleansing and health care. She will if you present it in terms "for the good of the child". Research Dr. Christopher's material at http://www.herballegacy.com and present her with factual information from http://www.doctoryourself.com http://www.mercola.com and of course, curezone. I think if you can get her on the herbal hormone formula's and a near raw food diet you will see improvement. You can do this by becoming the "cook" of the family and not cooking most of your food. Raw, real, whole foods are healing. Salads with every meal is a good start. Then progressively replace cooked meals with raw foods.

One major problem she is going to have when she is better is the guilt, shame, and humiliation for past behavior will be overwhelming. Expect a breakdown. Grief for the lost years is more intense than I can possibly describe in words. You will need to use EFT (www.emofree.com) and proxy tap for her until she can do it for her self. I have used this alot and it has helped me more than anything.

Hope this helps..
Lessa