The wife has a right ( out of many ) to be taken care of kindly and with mercy and love. The right is hers that she does not have to work but that her husband is the main provider. He cant force her to work for money. Nor can he take the money she earns if she freely chooses to work. The money is hers. Its completely up to her. But the man has no choice- he has to work for her. Sorry guys but its the way it goes....(grin)