No actually what you sense in me is that I'm more like a Lone Ranger Christian. I balk at being herded by man's decisions. Don't discount our personalities being a big part of being that way. If I feel like the group is being guided by the Holy Spirit together, I have no problem being part of that herd. Matter of fact, I'm happy to be a part of it.
The difference between you and I is that you balk at practically everything. If I balked as much as you did, I would not have any church home to attend. I would never be happy in an "anything goes" church. Some people want just that. If you can do well relating to a person that is more about less bible...then I'm glad you found someone that you can relate to and he understands you. We all like to find like-minded people, but if our personalities and/or beliefs are only about 1-2% of the population...that's going to be a little bit harder to do.