No man or woman has the ability to judge someone's heart, Tomi. I don't know what Refreshed even said to make you say this. I'm pretty sure that many on curezone would not agree with you. None of us posters are perfect and I probably am one of the most imperfect posters on curezone. Sometimes I have gotten in the flesh instead of walking in the Spirit as I should always remain. This is reflected in many of my past posts. I want to be forgiven mostly by God, but by others as well, including those who have read my posts on curezone. Therefore, I try my best to forgive others including those who have hurt me on curezone. Refreshed is certainly not a fake! She has given a lot on curezone to help others. She walks in truth. That is definitely refreshing to see when I see all the deceived trying to deceive others. Some would rather be led by the blind instead of those who can see. I wonder why this is. Sometimes the truth hurts so people choose the path of deception. I'm sure there are other reasons. Sending love to you, Tomi