What you said is true, Trapper, but man has limits in his understanding another's heart. Man has to judge by what he observes. God does not. That's all I am trying to say. Only God can accurately judge a person's heart with certainty. Yes, man can judge, but it has to be by observation. Man can get some idea of a person's heart with observation, but it is not a total picture. Only God can see the total picture. Just look at Tomi's post about Refreshed. I'm sure many will agree with me that Tomi has greatly misjudged Refreshed.