Tansy is a wonderful child of God. I know that you want people to give you the benefit of doubt on that post. The timing was really bad and makes it hard for people to really see it as you see it. All she wanted was an apology, not necessarily an acknowledgement that you meant to do it. So many of these type of mistakes happen over and over again and cause hard feelings that don't go away easily. Let's try and make some positive steps. I hope you get to really know Tansy like I have. She is truly a joy. :)