I guess any emotion on seeing this discussion come up again may come across as wanting to shut down discussion but in reality I would just like a decent discussion this time, that will cover a broader area.
We need to hear more than just there being an opinion on whether there is torment in hell for a very short while before unbelievers burn up. For there is much more to look at in order to prove whether vektek is correct or not. I have not discounted that there is a possibility she could be right. I just felt that she was not representing scripture correctly when it came to her explanation.
I mentioned nothing about an association with 7th day adventists. The association I was speaking of, was a true association. She is a grown woman and she can take with her any belief out of it she wants...but that doesn't mean it's correct. It's not mainstream theology and if that pleases you then that's your choice as well.
But I will take your advise and prayerfully consider my input into all of this and ask God to help with my lack of patience and time I have on the subject. Thanks.