" I've heard that it isn't good to chelate if bile isn't flowing, like mine isn't. That the chelator will just move metals around the body because they cant be eliminated by the detox channels..."
That is one reason why I suggested the use of DMPS. It sends toxins into urine. It tends to be the best tolerated of the common dithiols for mercury. While I think it is best to work with a doctor, in a pinch, some have used Detoxitab with very few negative reports.