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"If someone stabs you in the back and treats you horrible, why must I reflect on myself."

I think anger is the most appropriate response in some circumstances.

Seems to me the most patient people are the ones most likely to be pushed and tested, often way beyond reasonable realms, much more so than people with short tempers, who are quick to fly into an unexpected rage. Keep others walking on egg shells, so they are scared to mess with you, then you can be sure that all you get is compliments and adoration from everyone. And you won't have to change anything about yourself. The world is your slave. Use it as evidence that you are perfect.