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To the extent that what I wrote is true, then your assertion of its correctness would be right, but I cannot verify this and accordingly only consider it as my opinion. Being that, it is just the opinion of one writer, that you can take or leave as you choose. It does seem that you have a kind heart, and my perception is that most others here are good-hearted as well, so as much as I've been blunt, it probably wouldn't be exactly right for you to take any of this too harshly. Just perhaps sleep on it a little, retain what you lke and dismiss the remainder as you'll probably do anyways. Not knowing you it is impossible for me to love, hate, etc. you at all and only offer these thoughts because, well, I don't know why, but I hope you find all of this helpful in some way.