Hang in there, Sara...............

I am just now catching up with my reading. Like Grz, I did not read all the thread. But did read enough to get the gist of it. I totally agree with the original post of yours. I have had to do the same thing a couple of times. Not pleasant but had to be done, both for my benefit and their's also.

Grz was right about some people that seemingly do not make choices on their own, simply "You made me do this, you made me do that", etc. I do see a lot of that around CZ.

Another type that I run into is people that cannot seem to allow themselves to enjoy anything and has little tolerance for anyone that tries to have fun. My mother-in-law was such a person. Constantly trying to rain on other folk's parade. You can imagine how many friends she had. If she had the internet then, she could have a blast interrupting other folks. I have most certainly seen that type on various chat rooms. Even here on CZ I see that type. I do wonder what their lives are really like, judging by the behavior here on CZ

And then there are the types that cannot handle other people having a different opinion than theirs. I won't elaborate on that, but have hit it a few times.

Sara, I do not post a lot, but I have gotten a lot of good stuff from your postings. Most recently I got some of the whole grape seeds and grind them up in a coffee grinder and take them every day. All because of the good things you said about them caused me to dig deeper about them and liked what I found out.

Hang in there Sara, and realize that some of the posters are the same type you were posting about originally. I do simply ignore a post that seems to be trying to pick a fight with me. I will not allow them to enter and upset my space.

Corey