"That answers my question if I was responsible on how he lives his life and how our relationship has turned out. I am not. This is HUGE! It has been the mayor reason I resisted moving on. I felt that by me waiting a little longer and applying LOA I could change all that and get him to change."
That is a HUGE realisation and I expect you can launch some new desires from that knowing.
"Maya, do you think I should talk with him about my thoughts, why I have decided to move on?"
Yes, if it's a way to make peace with where you are. And it feels good. But no, if it means you are trying to motivate him to change.
"Would it be advisable to try to get him to think about that he has to deal with his issues or he will never be able to live the life he says he wants, as he had been telling me whenever I would bring up the fact that this relationship wasnt working for me?"
No, because he is not vibrating like you are. He will not hear what you are saying. Just allow him to be where he is, and allow yourself to be where you are and move up the EGS with all the procesess you now have. The only way to teach it is to live it. If he ever asks you for help/advice, that's when he's ready to hear it, not before. The best you can do is to buy him a copy of an Abraham book and leave it as that. One day, who knows, he might just pick it up and get it. Until then, allow him to be where he is.
"BTW, I did not know you were also an EFT teacher!"
Yes, I run workshops in EFT and also I am also a certified teacher in the work of Louise Hay - but mainly work with people 1-to-1. EFT is part of the Energy therapy group and is an off spring of Applied Kinesiology. So my work in Kinesiology covers so many things, such as Chiropractic, Acupuncture, Nutrition, Osteopathy and Homeopathy, etc. Kinesiology diagnoses using the body's innate wisdom and then delivers the best possible treatment. So dependent on what the body tells me, I can tap into mind/emotion/physical/chemical aspects. So, when the emotional/mind aspects show up as being unbalanced, I more often than not use EFT or another energy therapy, like Emotrance alongside my knowledge of the mind-body to make corrections.
But now, I am more focused on writing a book (probably more than 1) on the mind-body, which has always been my passion. There is always a cause behind the cause behind the cause :-)
I probably won't be posting for the next week as I have a busy work schedule. This week was a bit laid back because it was the kids school half-term holidays.
Now that you have removed the smiley face stickers and are making peace with where you are, I feel you will start to bloom in ways you never thought possible. Just focus on moving up the EGS slowly; no more attempt at quantum leap frogs :-)