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This is a reply to # 1,308,262yecch. I drank that stuff a long time ago, and it did the same thing to me, made me absolutely crazy. I got into trouble, but only when I drank wine. So I stopped the wine.
Quitting drinking is probably tough. I limit mine, and always make sure the time is right, environment good.
And limit it to only high quality material.
About thailand, a best friend of mine married a girl from there about 15 years ago, and they wen't there alot so I learned a bit about it. I'm not as big a fan of their food as I am of TexMex and the Mexican food here in Tejas.
Someday you'll find a guy who loves you like crazy and takes care of you and protects you so you won't have to worry about that stuff and can focus more on the lady like things in life, if you want to be inclined that way. - Re: PS
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Kick your own ass!
Undesiderata
Go placidly amid the noise & haste, but better yet, avoid the noise and haste altogether. Be on good terms with all persons as far as possible; especially with shopkeepers.
Speak the truth plainly & clearly; listen to others, even the dull and ignorant, until you are certain they are utterly useless. When you are not among men of reason, it is better to run than argue. Make use of loud & aggressive persons as salesmen, and to broadcast your radical views.
If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain & bitter; for always there will be greater & lesser persons than yourself. This is a good thing; vanity makes you more interesting to look at, and bitterness makes you more practical and realistic.
Keep interested in your own career, however humble; but if you don't enjoy humility for its own sake, learn to exercise yourself in greater spheres of action. Once you know something it is yours forever; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. You always have to take care of wealth; knowledge takes care of you.
Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of people who must turn a profit to survive. Many persons strive for high ideals; some thrive, and some starve. There is no good reason to starve. Most people throw away treasures. Many useful & interesting items can be had for half price, if you are willing to buy them used.
Be yourself. Especially, do not deny yourself pleasure for fear of social stigma. Indulge yourself in private. If you love yourself shamelessly, others will love you.
Resist aging and death with every resource available to you. Nurture skills of self-defense. Learn how to survive under difficult conditions; this may shield you in sudden misfortune. Distinguish between illusion and reality, between emotion and fact. Avoid making important decisions on too little sleep.
Kick your own ass. The universe neither cares about you nor recognizes any obligation to you. It is fixed and blind, a mad robot programmed to kill. You are free and seeing; you must outwit it at every poor turn.
Whatever your labors & aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, you must create your own sanity, prosperity, and peace. The world is so gorgeous it hurts. Be careful. Strive to be happy.
-- found on a plaque attached to a communications satellite; dated 2012
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I can promise you that those who engage in self-destructive behaviors are harder on themselves than anyone else possibly could be! In fact... it is those very internal 'tapes' that perpetuate the cycle of the behaviors that the 'tough lovers' are trying to help break. They consciously or unconsciously crucify themselves for every little 'flaw' and 'imperfection'... and then punish themselves when things are going well because... on some level... deep down they don't believe they deserve to feel good. The very last thing they need to hear is others echoing the very same critical voices that torment them in their head already!
As for 'love and light' messages... I can only speak for myself. My position doesn't come from some superficial airy fairy... 'everything's supposed to feel good' place. It comes from a deep respect and honor of another human being... especially as an adult... that they are perfectly capable of finding the answers to any problems that they might wish to resolve. While I will offer suggestions or advice... I respect that the person has the right to accept or reject them as they are the only ones who know what is appropriate for them. This is also the reason that whenever I work with clients... I make it a point to ask them what it is they are wanting from me. I don't give them answers... but rather direct them back to themselves. I may tell them what I would do... if in a similar situation. However... we are each responsible for our own lives and the consequences... both negative and positive... that result from our own actions. No one is a expert of another human being other than themselves... and no one knows better what their circumstances are and what they need to do.
I can also tell you that I was very nearly 'tough loved' to death! And while the intentions behind it may be well-meaning... in practice... a great deal of harm can be done! Can positive things come from it? You bet they can... and I'm in the process of making that happen! That is the choice that I make. However... that doesn't absolve the 'tough-loving-do-gooders' of their responsibility for the damage!- Re: I hope you read this High on Water
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,307,824NO support system is without flaws. We are ALL flawed, and we all come from a place of being OVERLY flawed.
Flawed responses (well-intentioned or not) are going to be a part of what to expect here.
It is unavoidable.
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- Re: --Hello again everyone-- peggyaus
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MoreThis is a reply to # 1,305,515Thats a very kind interpertation
and you must be a loving and giving person
- Re: --Hello again everyone-- zazaG
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And the "cure" is not a bottle of iodine, either. Although I surely hope that you'll check in here and let us know what's up and stuff.
And the cure is not in your group of partying friends(I guess you know that), and it's not in any of your sexual partners(I guess you found that out, too:).
J%%$$#zusss Christo, I'm glad that you're ok. I've thought about you a lot. It amazes me how emotionally attached I become to some words on a screen!!!!!
What's up? what are you looking for?
I think that it may not be as difficult to find as you're making it.
It's as easy as realizing what it is that you enjoyed, as a child. Keep doing it.
Like to look at bugs? Go on a hike, look at some bugs. Like to care for animals? Volunteer at your local animal shelter. Like kids? I'm sure that someone that you know has one, or two. that you can spend some time with, take some pressure off the parents. Find some old farts that wanna talk, take some time and let them jabber away(It's the human connection, without that we're not alive, same thing...sort of, not really, as random sex).
I'm trying to say, maybe not so eloquently, that you need to change your focus. Not completely, mind you, because you're obviously not happy, you need some work. But do NOT focus on yourself 24/7. It's TOO MUCH.
While you work on Trysten, you can surely reach out and help others. And you don't even have to "help". Just CONNECT. And connect in a way that has absolutely NOTHING to do with your youth and your beauty. Because you ARE young and beautiful, no doubt, zits or no.
It's a hard world out there,sweetie. And there are those that will surely use you up and toss you away when they're done getting whatever it is they think that they need from you. As a young woman, you really have to watch it.
You have to be strong, you have to stay focused.
You need to learn to say NO. to others and YOURSELF.
What you are going through, most of us have(and continue to struggle with, here & there).
WHY do people do drugs & drink? Because it's FUN. It's GREAT to be away from hum-drum life(and all the chores). And, we want to touch the divine. It's out there....
WHY do people have sex? Well, that's a no-brainer! Feels GREAT! Awesome, intimacy, human connection(maybe I'm NOT really alone on this planet).
The problem with sex, though, in particular, is that if your partner is not on the same plane as you, you end up feeling like a sperm-bank. So, sex as a result of purely physical attraction(maybe with some chemical/alchohol-induced loosening up) ...really doesn't work. You need the LOVE thing.
& how do you get that? Gotta love yourself, first.
And love does not mean giving yourself any little sensory pleasure that wafts through your world. You've seen where that leads you.
You've got to learn to temper yourself.
egads, enough already. You're a smart young thing. Just tell me that you know all of this. And that you're going to start believing it.
It's all inside of you. It ain't out there.
ps. check your in-box
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Thanks, but I've always felt i was supposed to travel the world and I've always wanted to go to Thailand. This is my dream. It's extremely important to me. I'm not seeking any particular thing except an experience of traveling solo, I'm not going over there for it to "cure me" or anything, sorry if it came across that way. I just want to get away for awhile and experience another culture, because that feeling fills my soul with motivation and drive. As for connecting with what I enjoyed as a kid, travel has always been my dream. :) I don't want it to seem like I'm going away just to run away from all this, I promise I'm not. You guys have heard me talking about this for awhile now. I was actually in the midst of my year sober when I began planning to go away. So I think it's align with the proper needs of my soul.
I'll check my pms now! :)
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- Don't go to Thailand. Miss Helfinger
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This is a reply to # 1,305,459The wisest way for you to travel and not get sucked into addiction (which if you know anything about drug culture, Thailand is the mecca of addiction) is to start doing yoga, wait a bit, and find ashrams you can stay at. There are awesome ashrams all over the planet - pick a country and you'll find one. They're always vegan (right up your alley) and anything that alters your consciousness is such a no-no that no one would even attempt to sneak it.
Besides keeping you balanced, that's the cheapest and most holistic way you'll be able to travel by yourself and not get into trouble. If this (addiction) were a physical symptom and you were say - gluten intolerant - you wouldn't go hanging out in a f**king bakery, nor would you get a job at Wonder Bread. You must look at this slippery slope as it is indicative of everything you're working on. Everything you're dealing with is a recipe. One part addiction or lack of self love, one part physical manifestation of said thought process, one part accumulation and one part nutrient deficiency.
No one can address one of those issues without addressing the other issues. Straight up, no lie - the others will rise up and get ya every time.- PLease dont tell me that Trysten3000
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This is a reply to # 1,305,491I would rather commit suicide or fall into a drunken stupor and die than cancel this trip. It has been in the works for a LONG time and it means EVERYTHING to me. Please.. just support me. I can't wait a bit. This is my ONLY chance to go. PLease, this is the ONE thing I have hope for right now, people telling me not to go just makes me want to kill myself. Nothing has EVER meant more to me than this-ok?
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I shouldn't have been so harsh, I apologize. I was being more flippant in my tone from my key board and didn't really mean you should absolutely cancel an already planned trip. You know I care a lot about you and we've had some awesome conversations. This period in your life is important and it will give you a lot of experience and benefit you no matter what. But, look at my other post on 'the space between.' Choose a few avenues to keep you a bit grounded while you're gone. Thailand is lush for opportunity to satiate yourself. Just decide what will satiate you and stick to it.
Remember, sweetheart, that we are magnets and we attract EXACTLY the vibration we are resonating at, high or low. Time is not linear and if you stick your mind to it, you can raise your vibration to a very healthful level before you leave and will manifest the most amazing trip ever.
Dance, draw, cook good food, laugh, join that animal rescue group, go for windy walks - anything and everything to begin creating new neuro-pathways in your brain for it to follow. When you resonate at a higher level, so will your thoughts and the lower vibration will fade away. You can SO do this. Perhaps you should start with making a vision board. Images of a holistic, beautiful young woman on a self-fulfilling, prophetic trip that changed her life. It's already true - just cut and paste it up. Get all the Gaiam and organic magazines you can find, cut them up with everything you need to manifest. And do put up that wonderful photo of yourself with the pigtails and the camera. Time is NOT linear - you are that person, now and always. Now, DO IT.
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This is a reply to # 1,305,501Thanks for being so supportive. :)
I'll be cool, I'm super strong, my only battle is with myself. But once the two battling "sides" of me come together on something, I stick to it.
I went through this with crack too. One part of me wanted to quit for a LONG time. The other part of me wanted nothing more but to get high. This battle went on and on but finally something happened (hitting a bottom) that was SO harsh that it shocked both of these sides into the reality of the situation, and I never touched crack again.
This recent relapse with alcohol was sort of the same thing. All parts of me are angry at alcohol and want nothing to do with it. It's like a really bad "friend" that only screws you over every time you hang out! Once you realize you don't need them, you wonder why you ever got to hanging out with them in the first place.
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This is a reply to # 1,305,497I don't know how safe a solo trip to Thailand is for a young girl. Of course you don't have to think about consequences for anything if your default is always suicide.
I know a few women a little older than you who live for primal desires (sex, food, drugs/alcohol). They were never taught discipline while growing up and thus never learned how to discipline themselves later on in life. They are now paying the price with long term mental and physical diseases, money and moral issues... some permanent. You are headed in this direction. Listen to Trapper about the discipline. We older (a decade or two) folk know what we are talking about because discipline is universal, sorry you're not special in this regard so it will work for you just like everyone else.
Your need for approval, acceptance and attention from others shows your lack of self control and need for discipline. Discipline builds internal value, self worth, and above all control. Right now you are giving other people in your life that control.
***The problem with giving up self-control (discipline) is: If you don't control yourself someone else will. Your true friends will not want to assume that control and it will burden them, and anyone who does want to control you is NOT your friend and you will enable them to harm you. Please understand this above all.***
Giving up control also means that you don't have to make choices and are not responsible for your failures. The Alcohol/drugs/sex is just another way to lose control over your life.
You don't need religion to be disciplined.Advertisement
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This is a reply to # 1,305,518They were never taught discipline while growing up and thus never learned how to discipline themselves later on in life. They are now paying the price with long term mental and physical diseases, money and moral issues... some permanent.
exactly.
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This is a reply to # 1,305,518I'm actually a very disciplined person...
I just went through a bad time, thats all, Im not perfect, shit happens. Its really not a big deal.. lol its funny that its even turned into this big of a deal in this discussion on here because I'm already SO over it, I've already moved on to bigger and better things.
Thanks for your concern, but thousands of women backpack southeast asia independently every day. Its one of the biggest travel destinations in the world for young, independent backpackers. It's really not a thing. :)
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