Thank you so much for sharing! I thought I would let you know that there is an online support group where you can excange your home remedies for bartholin cysts and share stories with other women going through the same horrors. It's also free. You can find it by going to yahoo groups and typing in bartholincysts ( all one word ) into the search box.
Good luck. I know how badly these things hurt. I call it my personal hell! You are not alone.