Has anyone experienced gastritis from a parasite? If so-- how did you cure it?   [End]
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yes this is real   [End]
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Alot of us have the same story, i went to the ER and they told me my huge distended stomache was gas. I had no gas. The medical system has been nothing but terror if u try to get help for parasites. Its a crying shame and just wrong how the docs will not listen to the patients but drain your bank account. Never knew such disgrace and horror in my life, thank God for cz!   [End]
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dr’s just don’t listen!! Two years almost now, dealing with abdominal issues and weight loss. Every time I would ask if there was any way it could be a parasite. Absolutely not, and we will not even entertain that, and let’s treat this and this and this instead, no meds, no treatments worked. Less than a month ago I posted some pics here thinking the family had pinworm and something else utterly bizarre. Turns out, no pinworms, utterly bizarre is undigested pineapple, but the treatment of wormwood and black walnut began an entirely new development. Cramping, ”seeds” in stool, incredible ab ...
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I can connect.I had several trauma events.7mos old,bit on a metal coat hanger,got stuck in my tounge.mom pull it out.I have NO memory,just FEAR.Left meemotionaly dead,guess.I fellfrom a car got hurt,smushed collarbone,molested by family member.I finally went thru things & found RobertSmith/FASTER EFT.I have problem with time change..I enjoy videos he has..I tap my stress away.Takes time,   [End]
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One of the things trauma victims (rape, domestic violence, war, etc) have in common is a sort of schism. Its what causes the repression of the event as a primitive defense mechanism. I worked with clients diagnosed with explosive psychosis and schizo-related issues for a few years only to see first hand that there was almost always a trauma based root, repressed. One thing of much help is to not say ’I’m not that little girl’ but to five the little girl inside of you what you needed at the time. I learned this strategy, not through work with the clients, but in my own therapy post trau ...
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Too much analyzing...I don’t know how you sleep at night. LIsten, it’s easy this life we live...all of us lie and manufacture problems that really aren’t there and say we’re this and that...bottom line is that EVERYBODY HAS SOMETHING THEY THINK NOBODY ELSE HAS FELT GUILT OVER. And that simple isn’t true. You keep on bringing up bisexuality but concentrate on the fact that you’re not. Who cares? In this day and age...nobody cares, pal. Get it set in your mind that you are not that unique to the world of guilt and I do believe you’ll start to feel a calmness about what you perceive to ...
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I know this is counterintuitive but this really sounds like a candida, parasites and heavy metal toxicity problem. I know because I used to have the same exact feelings and they didn’t go away until I addressed these issues and did an intensive detox, then I stopped caring about stupid things and just had a feeling of bliss almost all the time. You see these toxins are causing all kinds of obsessive negative thoughts in your brain and you feel like it’s you but it’s not you it’s these opportunistic organisms living inside you that are making you crazy   [End]
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Great example of manage stress and tension. Self talk can help me a lot when I feel stressed. Thanks for this amazing story and thread.   [End]
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Please find a good counselor and work through this. You sound like you are an honest person who wants to do the right thing when it comes to others. However, you are being way too hard on yourself by worrying about every little thing. It’s possible that you suffer from anxiety. I’m no doctor but this is something you can explore with a good counselor. Best of luck to you!   [End]
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So here’s the deal. I feel guilty all the time. I’ll pick some trivial matter and let it build up until I think its a huge deal, then I usually try to make amends with the problem only to find out its nothing. For instance: I did some homosexual experimentation in my younger years. I let this fester into a deep thing in the back of my mind. I got caught in logic circles and decided that since I had done these things this meant I was bisexual. So I tell my friends, family, and even girlfriend I’m a bisexual. My dad asks me why I think that and I tell him that I’ve had homosexual encounte ...
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I do a form of holistic healing called The Emotion Code and we find and release ’trapped emotions’ that have gotten trapped during traumatic events. Sometimes we don’t even know what they are, but they are in there. You do not have to relive these events or talk about them in order to release them. This therapy is very gentle and non-invasive.   [End]
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Your mummy was completely blind? Sorry! But what an insensitive unthinking person she was.   [End]
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You can make a good social worker. There are many youth who were going through the sex.abuse and rape and who are not supported or understood by their relatives, even by very close people.. Helping others you will help yourself eventually.   [End]
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I could not read that, I feel tortured, I have a child around that age, could not imagine someone doing that to her. Tears tears tears. .. would give a lot so no child knows a sexual abuse. I would give a lot to prevent abuse and detect abuser before he even started to plan on his sin. My hurt is with you. I want you to be happy and your kids never know what it is to be betrayed by someone who is trusted.   [End]
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wow. i thought i was IN the EFT forum, but it appears not.   [End]
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excellent! and EFT allows you to put the glass down. one glass at a time, and then the whole ”forest”, so to speak. :-)   [End]
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Thank you both, The above flashback isn’t very bad in comparison to the other ones, but I get your point about not wanting to give other baddies a chance to get ideas so I will stop writing out flashbacks here. I used to leave my body and go to my favourite climing tree just outside my bedroom window. I used to be good at leaving my body, but it doesn’t feel that safe anymore.. It just makes me feel cut off and alone. Has meditation got an element of leaving your body, or is the idea to stay in the body the whole time? I tried my best to be good so that mum didn’t get tired of ...
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The above response is spot-on, and I echo what the author wrote.  These things can be learned, by ourselves, but it takes a lot longer with more slips and falls if we choose to do this, alone. What I do not understand is why you are posting the details of your memories on an open, online forum.  I am very sorry that these things happened to you and that your parents never validated your traumas, and I don't want the following statements to be misinterpreted as flaming you.  I also understand the need to get the traumas out of your head.  But, as I wrote in a pr ...
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You need to remind yourself that you are not that little girl. If you can look at the situation without emotional attachment, you will see an innocent little girl who was a victim of a very bent and tortured man. He was in a living hell and he dragged you into it, you need to forgive yourself. This situation was far beyond your control. Our minds are amazing, meditation gives me clarity and strength. Finding space between the thoughts is a way to help not become over whelmed by the constant chatter in our brain. Most of which is useless dribble any way. You need to truely love yourself you ...
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I don’t seem to be able to post to my original threat either.. Thank you both for believing that I shouldn’t feel guilty about all this. I think I know that in an intellectual level, but as soon as the nightmares or flashbacks come it’s different. It’s like Im that little girl.. I don’t like being her. How to get rid of her? Your right Soulsurvivor, I don’t think my parents knew/report it. He might have been caught hurting someone else cause he disappeared when I was six. I want these bad memories out of my head though... ************************** TRIGGER WARNING ************* ...
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Your story is heartbreaking, you can work through this. You never did any thing wrong, you should have no guilt. Guilt is absolutely useless, won’t fix what’s happen only make the feeling worse. Have you ever tried meditating. This may help. This man is the one that overstepped the boundaries, please forgive yourself. Practice self love. These are just memories know, you are not that little girl. Everything changes as have you. Set yourself free from that littlegirl. When the memories come just breathe. Tell yourself breathing in breathing out. Don’t follow the bad thoughts, they are like ...
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Thank you for your advise Soulsurvivor. I’m not sure if I’m ready for therapy. I’m really shy talking to people face to face, especially when they direct all their attention to me like a therapist would. I don’t want to be trapped in a room with a stranger even if they are a therapist... I want these bad memories out of my head though... I thought they might go away if I write them out? I read from a magazine that it had helped some people who struggled with flashbacks. I guess my descriptions are vivid as they feel like they’re happening now when I remember them. How is it possible to ...
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Muru, I am very sorry that you were harmed by a ”trusted” adult and that you’re experiencing flashbacks of the event. The fear and shame that a ”trusted” adult creates in a child when they commit these crimes is indescribable. When your mother took you to the doctor after the assault, what was done? Did this subject ever come up with your parents, afterwards? Even though the molestation took place, years ago, I would strongly urge you to report it and to engage in some strong counseling therapy, ASAP. Since this is your first time posting, I will also gently caution you about ...
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I’m quite new to this forum but seeing how brave other people are sharing their story I’m going to try and share mine bit by bit in a hope that the flashbacks will lessen when they find a voice. Comments and support welcome! TRIGGER WARNING***********************************************************************TRIGGER WARNING My first memory of being hurt came to me when I got my medical records from my old family surgery to take with me when I moved away to Uni. My eyes caught a doctor’s statement a few months before my fourth birthday. It said my mum brought me to see a doctor after ...
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Wow!! what a super example! great:) Yes, you are right. it depends on how long kept. ”Put the Glass Down”   [End]
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A Psychologist walked around a room while teaching Stress Management to an audience. As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the ”Half empty or Half full” question. Instead, with a smile on her face, she inquired: ”How heavy is this glass of water?” Answers called out ranged from 8 oz. to 20 oz. She replied, ”The absolute weight doesn’t matter. It depends on how long I hold it. If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and p ...
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Yup...people seldom really hear you. That’s why I prefer talking to myself, and I find the best way to do that is to follow the excellent video demo tape at http://www.tapping.com (Be careful to read the exact website title because somebody is trying to drive visitors to another site.) http://www.tapping.com may work well because it calms tension on most any subject...in my opinion. If it doesn’t work the first time through, repeat it. I vanquished a toothache by going through it twice the first day, and once more the next day. I also added one or two cloves to my mout ...
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Excellent! Many thanks. However, not sure I agree. I would really like to hear her effective alternative. :D   [End]
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Poster LD Di brought up a good point 4 months ago. Severe weather changes cause something similar to SAD but aren’t necessarily seasonal changes. It may also affect pets and farm animals. It’s important for us to realize so we don’t blame ourselves for any newfound nastiness, but also so we can make an extra effort to remain civil towards friends and family. Behavioral changes will happen because of solar flares and magnetic pole shifts, but maybe they can be prevented/reduced with an extra supply of electrolytes. This was my reply to his post.... http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i= ...
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cool video   [End]
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Barbara Ehrenreich explores the darker side of positive thinking, much relating to downsizing and the unemployed, but also some politics and other topics. Entertaining hand drawn graphics. http://www.wimp.com/positivethinking/   [End]
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this is a poem by an English poet ”William Ernest Henley” (1849–1903).... ”Invictus”... packs a very powerful punch line/motto to live by... learned of it from the movie ”Invictus”... watched last night... very good movie... well worth watching... ”Invictus” Out of the night that covers me, Black as the pit from pole to pole, I thank whatever gods may be For my unconquerable soul. In the fell clutch of circumstance I have not winced nor cried aloud. Under the bludgeonings of chance My head is bloody, but unbowed. Beyond this place of wrath and tears Looms but the Horror of ...
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Hi, I agree with what you are saying. I read it is a very juvenile thing to compare pain or issues... Everyone experiences things differently even if they go through the exact same thing. I had a friend who was a psychologist and she was so nonlistening and more a good feel friend I dumped her. My family has ”I already know and believe what I want to believe” ears. I have gone to see a lot of professional people ini the past to run into the same thing. Very frustrating. It makes me bitter in a way. Or people that just give advice when not asked to give advice and then angry when ...
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IMO, people who have never experienced any type of suffering/pain probably minimize yours because THEY think it might make you feel better by pointing out that someone else has it worse than you do. It won’t. My experience over the years is not to engage anyone who has not experienced firsthand what you are going through. This would be experience themselves or a spouse or child. Otherwise your voice will be cast to the wind. What people fail to realize is that everyone has a different threshold of pain and suffering. What one person experiences as monumentally painful, another person ...
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Why do people always feel the need to minimize your pain no matter what situation you are going through?(job loss, loss of a loved one, iillness, etc.) They do this by bring ing up that somebody out there who it has worse than you? I know that and yes at times,we all need to be reminded of that , however sometimes , people just need a friend who will listen,.It makes me think often times people minimize or throw out plattitudes because they either don’t want to take the time to listen or don’t know how! However , it seems like we have become a very unlistening society. Any comments or ...
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hi, kygirl, I am so glad you replied. i am starting a fast tonight. I am sorry for all your suffering. Congrats on having kids. How did you do it. I wish I had children. FAsting is not a quick fix, but I believe in it as the best healing. It takes a series of fasts to heal. I think usually people end up having a practice of fasting in their lives, when they have major illness, and choose fasting as their way of healing. For me, the fast provides immense relief. The challenge comes after the fast, when I am really challenged to change my ways. I have to eat not like a food add ...
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Thank you for your response. I am sorry it has taken so long for me to reply. I haven’t been on the computer much and didn’t realize you had replied. I feel so rotten all the time. I get migraines almost everyday and my chest... oh my gosh... the pains are horrible. At first it was just pressure and when I ate something I shouldn’t (wheat, MSG, etc.) I would get chest pains. But now, the pain is almost constant. My blood pressure fluctuates but is always high. My vision gets distorted, depending on how high the BP is. I am going to prepare myself over the next couple days for a wa ...
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hi! it is great to hear from someone! I am, to answer your question, totally involved in a life-process of learning, embracing, and becoming committed to a serious practice of fasting. I anticipate that I will do quite a lot of fasting in the beginning, for initial healing -- as soon as I learn to really do it. Then for the rest of my ... life, I guess, there will be maintenance fasts, several per year...fasting is my chosen healing modality/way of life. So, I did do this fast .. I don’t know when the post was from. Subsequent to this (I think) I did a 4.5 day fast and most recen ...
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I just recently realized that I have celiac, though I have not been diagnosed. I am considering a fast and cannot find any information on it. I am very ill and need to do something to make me feel better as quickly as possible. How long did you end up fasting? How did you feel afterwards?   [End]
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I completed the first day of my fast tonight, Tuesday night. I am committed to continuing to develop the mental/emotional breakthrough to enable a long fast. I am finding myself much warmer and more open and trusting with others. I felt real security, safety, and warmth from some others in a group I was in just the other day. This at long last -- something I have waited for in my life for a long time. Someone messaged me: ”We are way stronger than we give ourselves credit for.” YES!!! So I have completed Day One as of Tuesday night and I am into Day Two. So Day Two i ...
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Do you have Celiac Disease or intolerance to gluten? If you have intestinal overgrowths I doubt if fasting will cure the problem but removing the foods which are feeding the organisms that have overgrown your normal gut flora will help. I use the Specific Carbohydrate Diet from the book ’Breaking the Vicious Cycle’ by Elaine Gottshall. Also I have been using Dr. Hulda Clark’s ”The Cure for All Diseases’ for years - especially her Bowel Program and her parasite program, kidney cleanse and liver/gall bladder flushes. There are other programs in various books and onlnine which others hav ...
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HI, I am desperate to fast to rout my candida/other bacterial intestinal overgrowth. I have needed to do this for about 30 years -- since I was 10. I have had a horrible life because of this disease. I have adhered to an all-raw diet 2 years straight now and have fasted weekly for a couple of years as well -- which has just barely kept me functioning. Hell, I can’t even claim to function. Depression, lethargy, the entire list of symptoms. Brain fog. Anxiety. I know a good fast of several days would do something powerful to clear me up. In the future, for my life, I need to be a pe ...
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Tough one. He does need help. I would be worried about the harm he might cause someone else. I ran into a situation where a person close to me was impersonating a POW and put himself in every combat situation since 1974. I found out he was only in service for 6 months and not in the Army as he claimed but in the national guard. This was a person who got away manipulating the system with his lies and hurting others as well , without getting into details, be very careful and take measures to protect yourself. Look how far he was willing to go to reenlist. Mentally sick but not stupid. ...
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I realize he is a veteran. My recommendation remains the same. Go to his FORMER CO, base commander, or chain of command. He’s impersonating a decorated officer. He’ll be treated appropriately through military channels. Or try: http://www.cid.army.mil/ US Army Criminal Investigation Command My best during this trying time.   [End]
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Well, he was discharged on a medical in 2007 and has been doing this since then.  I don’t know if anyone has heard of the "Stolen Valor" legislation that addresses this type of cime.  At any rate - now that he’s a civilian, whom would I contact?  I really don’t like the idea of doing this, but what he’s doing is criminal.  The people that he’s harming are many.  And, somewhere, this has to end.  UGH.  What the heck is WRONG with people?  My brother who’s a retired Naval Officer and served in Viet Nam told me that this type of thing has ...
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He’s also getting special loans, grants, and all of the other perks that a decorated combat vet deserves by passing off his fabricated and forged "documentation."  I have an original forgery that he made up that named him as a recipient of the Bronze Star for heroism during a firefight in Tikrit.  He never even left WRAMC in 3 years.    [End]
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From reading the OP’s original post, it appears that this person is no longer in the army. However, it appears that he is impersonating a decorated combat veteran...   [End]
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I have a loved one in the military, too. Listen, I know it’s hard, but you need to turn him in. Not to the local authorities, but to the Army. His crimes are against the military, and will be handled by the military court, not the civilian court. He will be court marshalled, his career is toast, the records of his misdeeds/crimes will follow him the rest of his life, justice will be served through this, but it will be better for your loved one, because the military has standard protocols for this type of thing. The Army can get him medical or psychiatric attention, disability pay, poss ...
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What medication or treatment would create a conscience in a person who doesn’t have one?  Either they have one, or they don’t, and the person in question doesn’t.   [End]
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This person’s ex-wife knew about his forgeries.  The evidence has been examined by individuals who are familiar with this type of thing. I appreciate the strong encouragement - I  do feel as if I’ve committed the crime because I know about it, have the original physical evidence to prove it, and I know that people are being harmed by his activities that have never even met him.  His activities are defrauding taxpayers and objectifying the brave men and women who have served courageously. Thanks, again, for the encouragement.  This has been a horrib ...
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Current medicine doesn’t know enough to know that, much less to find out what it is. We who operate on common sense know it, but they don’t. Sad commentary, eh?   [End]
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tell him to reenlist - there are lots of rag heads to kill - he will be happy and we will be safe   [End]
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If you are correct, he is dangerous to people (tried to kill pregnant wife, threatened to kill you and your family). What about the next wife, girlfriend or family member that he thinks is getting in his way????? If you are correct: Way beyond the fact that this guy is a fraud and a liar, hurting (no doubt) many more people than you know of, one person like this can and usually does ruin *many* lives. If you are correct in what you say, the problem is way bigger than fraudulent paperwork. Also if you are correct, he is taking a lot of time to practice and doing a lot of work to pe ...
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Without going into even more detail, this family member attempted to kill his then-pregnant ex-wife, and is a full-blown abusive sociopath. JAB If this is true. And often things get blown way out of proportion. You might have to do whatever it takes to protect yourself and others. Since the military didn’t work out he probably is doing whatever it takes to get financial assistance. Employment is never great in the best of times. If he is in your household. Sometimes the best thing to do it run away from the problems and move. If you can’t or don’t want to do that you might have ...
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Ok, you’re probably tired of hearing from me so this will be my last post. However, since this bothers you so much is there a minister that you can get advice from? It would be nice if others on here would give advice too, but it seems no one here really has any answers.   [End]
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I sincerely had not intended my personal crisis to turn into a psychiatric/psychological debate.  I’m in tremendous emotional turmoil over this, and I’m too close to the situation to take (or, not to take) a rational action to not only hope to stop this from continuing, but to help this individual stand accountable for his choices..  Once again, thanks for your posts.   [End]
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with personality disorder. There has got to be something wrong. I’m not doubting what you say about the two being separate. I do believe without a doubt that this person has some brain chemical imbalance. But since you appear to know more about psychiatry than I do, maybe you have the answers to his problem better than myself or others. Maybe only you can help him. We should probably be asking you what to do with this guy.   [End]
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Thank you for your response.  The individual doesn’t have a psychiatric condition, as I mentioned in the OP - he has a personality disorder, and there is a vast difference between the two.  Personality disorders are not an organic condition and can only be "managed" or "treated" by the individual, themselves, through life-altering changes in behavioral choices.  Those with a personality disorder must be willing to recognize the damage that they have inflicted, and be willing to make personal changes.  Schizophrenia is a chemi ...
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First, you have already said that this person has documented psychiatric problems. That explains his behavior. Reporting him to authorities is not going to improve his tendencies. All being imprisoned is going to do is cause him to become more angry and aggressive. Yes, being behind bars will stop this, but this man needs intense psychiatric help. It sounds to me as if he has a brain chemical imbalance.   [End]
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I am ashamed to say that I have an immediate family member who has been impersonating a decorated combat veteran.  This individual enlisted in the US Army in 2001 and received a ”medical” discharge in 2003.  He lived in my home for 6 weeks after his discharge and abandoned his belongings in my home after he tried to re-enlist using forged and bogus military documentation.  The Recruiter called me to tell me that he had changed the eligibility codes on his Dd214 so that he would appear eligible for re-enlistment, and had been caught.  He left my home, the ...
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HELL AS EXPLAINED BY CHEMISTRY STUDENT The following is an actual question given on a University of Washington chemistry mid-term.The answer by one student was so ’profound’ that the professor shared it with colleagues, via the Internet, which, of course, is why we now have the pleasure of enjoying it as well. Bonus Question: Is Hell exothermic (gives off heat) or endothermic (absorbs heat)? Most of the students wrote proofs of their beliefs using Boyle’s Law (gas cools when it expands and heats when it is compressed) or some variant. One student, however, wrote the following: ...
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Time Travelers on Ramtha: It has been my experience, and I have observed, over the years, that anytime a large amount of money is involved, there is a tendency to lose focus, and eventually even ones gift may become at risk. My gift is far too valuable to me to risk losing it for any amount of money, fame or power. In addition to this, too many members make for a distancing from the principle. Just too many members and not enough time.   [End]
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As with any ATTITUDE (feeling/being ”curious”, ”guilty”, ”shame”, ”humiliation”, etc.), there are justified reasons for the attitude and there are also unjustified reasons for it. ”Curious” can be for BUSYBODY/nosiness, OR it can be that someone young has a true academic ambition to learn (either/or). ”Curious” is an attitude, not a REASON to want to know. ”GUILT” is also an ATTITUDE and may also be FALSE. Of course, if a person has actually done something that is ”BAD”, then they are responsible for the outcome and the ”consequences” that other people must suffer/endure. That person ...
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Can we bottle that and give it to some sociopaths and narcisists?   [End]
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...Most anywhere...as can any ailment. We don’t always suspect the real cause, and we may never know. I’m beginning to think that it matters less where they come from, than what they do to us...and how we handle them. What if negative emotions are a purely PHYSICAL problem? Or, what if the solution is purely physical? Or, nearly so. What if we concentrated on making ourselves feel good, and energetic, first? After all, isn’t that what medicine is trying to do? And recreational drugs? And other ways we try to boost our feelings? F.   [End]
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The cure? ...First, stop the tension. Notice where you have tension or anxiety, and accomodate your needs, more simply and easily. Then, try different health care protocols and lifestyles. Humaworm is my focus now, as I’ve had some signs of healing with it. And, skipping some irritating foods. ...Good digestion. Peace-of-mind is a wonderful help. Fledgling   [End]
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Thank you very much for your thoughts. you have helped a great deal. I took yours and others advice from this thread,and guess what? Ive been cancer free since I started this thread. Just a thank-you note to all who cared enough to respond   [End]
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I did many bad things in my life growing up and then got very sick. I just knew this was in part from my past behaviors. I repented in my heart and made every effort to stop my behaviors. My habits starting to change and I started to grow again and get well. During all of this I never confessed my sins to another. But I did get well again and eventually I even forgot about them. Then during a moment I confessed one of my sins to someone and it now comes back to haunt me. Better to let these things fade with time then to throw salt on a wound I say. So In answer to your question - Become p ...
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Hi: I didn’t read the replies but I can tell you this (be advised that as a Christian, I speak solely from the view of Christianity): The bible says that all have sinned a fallen short of the glory of God. The fact that you have recognized and shown remorse for your sin is the first step in cleansing yourself. If you feel convicted strongly to speak to your family about this, then that is the spirit of the Lord telling you that you need to get this out in the open. However, if you have confessed your sin to the Lord and then completely turned away from it leaving it in the hands ...
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Hi... OK, first let me say as a married woman, whose also been in love with someone other than my husband, that there were, and are, reasons this took place...as I’m sure there was for you. These kind of things dont happen without a reason, and Im sure you know what that would be, in my case, for instance, we’ve been married 28yrs., 3 grown kids, and there just insn’t anything there anymore, we aren’t on the same ”page” emotionally, we never really were. This became worse as the years went by, and the lonliness and emptiness I felt were just to much, and this wonderful ma ...
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Thank-you very much for your outlook. Im realizing all that you have said on my own these past few months.I now see the cancer as a blessing that changed my life and my aditude toward life. I love all things thoughout my day.Im freindly to all people as if they were family.I love my wife and children like never before. I thank all of you for your support,Now its time to ERASE the bad and Add the good. I will come back to this forum 1 last time to see any response to this post and that will be my last. thank-you   [End]
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I dont believe these wise statements are necessarily a blanket statement for all acts of indiscretion! They are in general and not conclusive to every possible situation! Carlos talks about restitution ! Which seems to imply a loss or something taken , and of course if you stole something it would make sense to return them and make things better and restition could take place! They talk about uncreating the situation! Implying that you create chaos or havoc or destroyed something and can in an act of restoring, uncreate the situation! And what about the other wise common sense sayings, ...
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Hi He has a ”secret sin” I mean , nobody knows only him, what he has done. Do you really think that talking about it to the family is necesary ? For example, I have had a bad argument with my sister in law. I feel compelled to ask for her forgiveness and try to do the right things. However, if the ofense is secret, they do not know, and if knowing the facts could me even more painful, does he have to talk about those things? There is no way to try to clean the soul in other ways? That is way I believe in Jesus. He can clean whatever is out of my control and capability. I know ...
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Dear 46459, Guilt is full of negative energy. It is terribly destructive to your body and mind. Your intuition is telling you that your guilt may well have generated the cancer from which you’re suffering. I agree. It is the toxic emotions like guilt, hatred, aggression, and envy that are lethal to our health. Every human being has done things in his past which he regrets. But the past is dead. It exists only as a memory. You need to make peace with yourself, and you need to do it quickly. Do NOT tell your wife and children about the affairs! Indeed, don’t tell anyone. Yo ...
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Hi Lapis Very interesting points. I need also to reverse the consequences of some bad actions I hava done. Not on purpose but out of impulsivity. I have been asking for forgiveness mentally and I have felt I need and go and talk to the people and say out loud: I am sorry. However, I am Christian and I know that everything else that is left out of my reach is in God’s hands. There is no need to hurt people talking more about things that is better to leave in the past. We need also to believe in the power of repentance and the the deep desire of our soul to do good things and reverse ...
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If you don’t do something in this lifetime to correct the karma debt and learn your soul’s lesson, you will bring it forward into the next. Either your soul will need to relearn this lesson by going through the same thing again or by being the one who gets cheated on but maybe in a much worse way.   [End]
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If you don’t do something in this lifetime to correct the karma debt and learn your soul’s lesson, you will bring it forward into the next. Either your soul will need to relearn this lesson by going through the same thing again or by being the one who gets cheated on but maybe in a much worse way.   [End]
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If I came clean and told my wife and kids everything this would destroy them and everything they believed thier father and husband is. They would suffer and I will not allow them to suffer in any way. I’ve truly changed, I no longer look for anything that does not involve my family. Faced with death,I have seen what is really important. But telling my family of my wrong doings is out of the question,this I will take to my death bed.If making my family miserable is the only way to save myself of guilt ...I guess ill die from it.   [End]
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What you have done is not like spitting on the sidewalk or something. Your emotional comfort is not the issue; simplistic self-forgiveness is not looking at the reality of the whole situation. The sinned-against may ”forgive” in some childish sense of the word - ”I hereby forgive you” [”but I’ll never forget” is what they are really saying to themselves]. The reality is that only God can pardon and from my observations he doesn’t do that until he sees you attempting to make balance, i.e., suffer, also. Anybody remember that scene in the Godfather Part III, where Michael Corleone mak ...
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...I mean spiritually clear...then the ULTIMATE way is to balance your debt. You can take a longer karmic route but the way of the spiritual warrior is the direct path. So then... I believe the most powerful way to do this is to be honest with those you have betrayed. Of course this takes courage but will lead to clarity of soul. Many are not ready for this degree of clarity as witnessed by the fear that comes at the thought of facing it. Truth = coherence. Any other approach is fooling one’s self (our culture is an inveritable madhouse of people fooling themselves..just look aro ... [Image Embedded Here]
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Take yourself to a priest and confess your sins. You’ve not told anyone else so naturally this is eating you up inside. You’ve recognised how you could have potentially ruined your family and plus endangered your wife’s health. I’m glad you stopped. Now go to any Roman Catholic church and ask when confession is and go to the priest and unburden your soul to another human being. Also, I would seek some counseling, short term.   [End]
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I feel guilty about some past acts,I believe this bad karma has brought on the cancer that flows through my blood stream. I hope some form of confession will help. I’ve been married to a wonderful women for 25 years. Three years ago I cheated on her.Not just 1 time and not with just women.I had 3 different women about 8 or 9 times.I had 5 men at least 12 times there. I will never let anyone know,no friends,family noone has a clue that these acts happened. I’ve put all that behind me,asked god for forgivness,but Im having a hard time forgiving myself.I need to be free of this guilt so I ...
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