I agree with what you are saying. I read it is a very juvenile thing to compare pain or issues... Everyone experiences things differently even if they go through the exact same thing. I had a friend who was a psychologist and she was so nonlistening and more a good feel friend I dumped her. My family has "I already know and believe what I want to believe" ears. I have gone to see a lot of professional people ini the past to run into the same thing. Very frustrating. It makes me bitter in a way. Or people that just give advice when not asked to give advice and then angry when you don't listen to them. I had a shrink where she wouldn't listen to me unless I said things she would agree with. AGGGGGHHHH.
I love Curezone people. Even if they don't agree with you they are there. Animals are great to talk to, too. That is how I got through school.