Hey.. I know how you feel, I've been going through the same stuff with my husband and I....It's so frustrating, I know exactly what you mean.... Here's a web site you might get more help from http://foru.ms/
It's a very large Christian based message board/forum site. Look under "Life Stages" then go to the forum "Marriage Ministry". ...Another site you might find helpful is http://demonbuster.com/
Have an open mind, and read through it. ( :