Re: Meet Cupid With A Sledgehammer

Yes, Alikat, we are on the same page and I, like you, am trying to help the best I can.  Sometimes the reality is not always easy to take, or to write.  I don't have much problem with him seeing if his lost love is available and interested.  The problem I have is I don't think he has the skills to "get the girl" and he probably doesn't even know where to begin.  That is why I recommended the Joe Land CD Gaining Confidence with the Opposite Sex; Patti Novak Confessions of a Matchmaker tips on her website and watching her show;   the Dr. Phil Books Self Matters and Life Strategies and Ellen Kreidman's relationship programs.  Beyond that, I would recommend Tony Robbins, many of his programs are good. 

There's fear, and then there is fear itself.  I am not equipped to help him with the latter beyond recommending good programs and/or a Psychologist. 

Torrie