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"It is very difficult trying to answer to your call of distress without appearing like we are coming against you."

"...I think that somewhere along the lines you have missed something in terms of sorting out potential mates before you commit, and right now you appear to display a kind of passive aggressiveness that is hard to ignore."

Alikat, those sentences speak volumes.  I congratulate you on your post.  It is blunt and to the point, but it is trying to genuinely help.  As far as I am concerned if someone does very well in their life but they have bad problems in another major area, it can affect the other areas.  Myself, I joke that I will never date again and such, but I haven't actually closed that door and I am always trying to learn about myself and others by reading and studying.  CureZone is about helping people get educated and not medicated.  Many people who have bad relationships have to go to the doctor and they will give you medications to help you cope.  But, there are books and programs and counseling out there that will treat the cause and not the symptom.