Re: #77290

"She says she loves me but her actions don't match."

Actions speak louder than words.

"I've asked her time and time again why I don't do it for her. She just starts crying and won't talk about it. I've mentioned and suggested counselling but she won't do it. Self help books are great but she won't do that either. I read your post on the Kreidman series. She won't do them."  "I've asked her if theres anything I can do - nothing."

I really think she is playing you.  She is using defense mechanisms to deal with your complaints.  And, you keep falling for it. 

In all seriousness, I think you need some counseling, because it seems you have some unhealthy deep-seated psychological issues about women.  Here are two more of your posts that make me think so: 

http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=849334#i

http://curezone.com/forums/fm.asp?i=988044#i