Re: and a big PS:

dear anyonymous (why the hell anonymous if you feel so strongly?)ok, maybe this is not the best discrimination in practice but here goes:

quote: "That they should express their disappointment is natural, because you are not the one hurting."

i posted because i'm hurt, i'm totally hurt. i'm not ashamed of it, even if some try to make me feel that way. what makes you think i'm not hurt? because i'm angry? anger is a part of it just like sadness. i'm expressing my dissapointment in a friendship that was agreed upon to be just that - by two adults who at the time both seemed conscious of the decision.
it has been discussed between us many times and i give people that i trust and know for 3 yrs the benefit of the doubt that they say what they mean. afterall we are adults?

if my friend had 'other'interests in me then as a friend he should have said so instead of insulting me out of nowhere because i was not meeting his intimate needs, misleading me and then confessing his true feelings when he couldn't stand it anymore. that is just plain warped! and i can discriminate that much! it just makes me sad, and hurt and grossed out at some of the things i've been compared to (a drug! an addiction) this is by someone i TRUSTED - and my feelings are a natural reaction to trust betrayed, natural reaction to the situation which you obviously know little about...or pretend to by further trying to insult me.

however i posted here because i wanna let him be and try to discuss it with other's who are non biased, so i would think from a public anonymous forum.

practice discrimination...practice discrimination...practice discrimination.....repeat after me.... :-)

take care.

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