Re: it is not IMPOSSIBLE??? but it isn't easy either...
hey thinker! what an awesome post. i will print that one out and hang it on my wall!
i think (hehe), because the way i grew up, running wild with the boys, sometimes i see them as just people, i see past the sexual orientation. i'm blind to it. just like i see past status, race, whatever...i see what the person is inside, not out.
i have friends from all walks of life, kids to 60 yrs old, so i find society taboos really hard to deal with,especially the boy/girl friendship thing.
i know it takes a certain level of consciousness to do it, i just forget we are on different levels. we should all carry evolution id cards from now on, sorta like mood rings you know? ;-P
and yes i'm pretty, so i'm told, so what? i make things really clear, i don't play anyone, i state my intentions well, when im going for coffee or having a friend for dinner for instance...what's so deceiving about saying, hey, i got dinner or i ordered out, come grab a bite to eat if they are passing through? i say that to all my friends if they call around dinner. that is not an invite to sleep with me.
and i do pay my own way cause i like to take care of my own needs!
and no, i am not looking for an intimate relationship when i EXTEND MY KINDNESS TO PEOPLE...crazy world we live in! crazy!