Re: and a big PS:

"do i attract such selfish men, who say to me that 'i make THEM feel good' yet there is no consideration that they make ME uncomfotable?"

Frankly my dear, I think you just don't give a damn, because you sound rather like a brat. That someone with whom you have a friendship develops deeper feelings for you which you can't feel back should not make you angry. That they should express their disappointment is natural, because you are not the one hurting.
In the best of all worlds, love and intimacy should be precluded by a solid friendship. Not the other way around.
A compassionate person would feel saddened by having inspired an unrequited attraction, but that's not possible if the person is immature, selfish and full of themselves.
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