You can live your life how ever you want to. But you can not take my freedom away, to stand for what I believe just so you can feel approved of. It's not my approval that one needs. It's salvation through Christ. That is where you get it. If you have already received Christ into your life...then what is the problem? It matters not what I think.
Intent does not save a person. Being a good person does not save a person. Good works does not save a person. If you have Christ already...then stop telling people that these other things will get them approval from God without salvation. Tell them the Truth and we will have something to agree on.