Re: So many people... quote
I agree with you, it is up to each individual to either accept or reject Christ, they can't blame others for getting in their way of accepting the truth. At the same time, Jesus taught that those who are in Christ need to bear the fruit of the Spirit. The fruit of the Spirit is love and bears witness of the Father and the Son. That is what Christ expects of His followers to bear good fruit. No man can bear good fruit, except it comes from Christ.
'If christians are part of that problem...so be it'
I disagree with your thinking on this. My opinion is that there are many people who declare themselves as Christians, but it is only the people who bear the fruit of the Spirit that are the real Christians. Christ was very clear that He expects His followers to feed His sheep. If we instead are poisoning His sheep, do you think we won't be accountable for this? I'm not saying that my version is right and everyone else is wrong. I'm saying that it is the duty of every person that proclaims themselves as a Christian to make sure they are bearing good fruit.
'We are only sinner's saved by grace...nothing more'
You make it sound like it is no big deal. A sinner saved by grace is the greatest miracle that can occur in this world. It is someone that was in death, who is now in life. You have become more. You were dead, now you are alive. You dwell in Christ who is Life. You were blind, now you see. You resided in sin, now you reside in grace. Christ has added all things to you. Now you are responsible to represent the one who saved you, the one who gave you life.