i just happened to come across the one you did above this about ear wax. this site is designed for anyone to look up any post made. i have a right to look at post, though i don't click on your name and browse that way, i only look at posts made in a particular forum that i am in. you sound really sensitive. i have learned over the years that sometimes constructive criticism is good. you learn from it.
if everyone around you always said positive, but untrue things, you might not realize the wrong, so it can be corrected. the fact that no one posted a response to this suggests that not many women even know shamu sticks exist let alone using them.