Hi Missy,
Thank you so much for this post because I was about to order one when I decided to research it a little bit before I did. I found your warning and I WILL NOT be ordering one. The other girl was being rude and disrespectful to you and all are trying to do is warn women from going through this. After childbirth, some women loses the tightness and some women enjoy pleasing their husbands. It also gives a woman more pleasure during intercourse so it's not just for the man's pleasure. Anyway, thank you so much girl!!