Confused Friend said...
"I'm teeny, five three at most"
and that the abuser is 6 foot tall.
Were your girlfriends 6 foot tall abusers that you should fear because they could make you a bloody mess and were prone to violence?
It is always very important to make SPECIAL note of things like this. Even if you don't mind risking your life, it's not considered good advice for other people.
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I just had to come back and add this...
You made the excuse that the girl didn't have to stay.
If you are in the habit of making excuses for an abuser, you have to REALIZE THAT (recognize it VERY clearly) for your own sake so that YOU know when it's to leave an abusive relationship.