Abuse is not a fault. It is a choice. You shake your head and move along as long as you arent the one being abused. There should be no rules about personal conduct and choices. What world are you living in where people need no rules and abuse is some sort of boo boo that the bad guy needs coddling and protection? What about the victims of abuse? You think that they deserve their beatings because they attracted abuseives? Talk about idiots.