You are so right. It takes two to tangle. After you read this you might hate me. I have been not only the wife tht was cheated on, but the one the husband cheated on with. Yes, I have been the other woman, and now I regret it. I not only did it once nor twice, but several times. I guess at that time all I wanted was what I couldn't have, and now I regret all of those relationships. One of those men left his wife of 7 years for me while she was pregnant with her 2nd child, and to be honest, at that time I didn't care. Now that I have gotten closer to God, I have realized tht I was wrong.