Hi,
That is the most intelligent thing I have heard anyone say, regarding my original post. NO, not because you agree with me but because it's the truth!!! I know what my husband did was very wrong and I do blame him but as many have said in a round about way it takes two to tango, therefore the other woman is just as much to blame! Do I blame myself NO!!!!!!!!!!! I did! But, after realizing I didn't break the vows or contribute to his doing so, it is NOT my fault. Men and Women cheat all the time, but that doesn't mean everyone does. Thank you for your reply.