I think it is childish and they need to grow-up!!! People who cheat are scum.. Yes, including my dear husband, I love him but he is scum!!!!!!!!!!! Why do people even bother to get married?? Not that it's any easier for a couple in that situation that is not married and don't have a mortage, children, a life.. But, marraige is forever morally. I can't help but be angry when I read posters who brag about their affairs and one night stands. Some day they will get theirs and that is truly the only way for a person to realize the error of their ways is to be hurt in the same way. They should do away with marraige it isn't worth the dam piece of paper it's written on.