Re: HELP!! Women who sleep with married men.

No, it is not all your fault. Dear, I know you are hurting, but to get support, you need to accept it.
My post was really meant to help, not to upset you.
Marriage is tough, I know, we all do. My husband didn't cheat on me with women but he did with drugs and not doing his part even though he is a good man and loves me. It feels terrible, you feel like your not worth much, but that doesn't mean its true.


You do, however, have to see what fault you do have in the relationship going awry - if you are in the relationship then by definition, you share the responsibility. Maybe he is just a jerk and not worthy of you. Then you need to realize that and take action. If you want to save this marriage, then you need put in a whole lot of work to do so. I had to go through 3 years that were somewhat demoralizing in many ways to come out on the other side. I was just about to throw in the towel when things turned around. Its tough to be with someone, its tough to be alone, life is not easy. But don't lash out at the people that are trying to help you just because life isn't fair. We are here for you and know that you deserve love and respect and all that is good in life. But hey, sometimes things go awry. What are you going to do to fix them? Because you have no control over anyone else but you, so if you want to have something happen, you need to do it. Have your anger, then get on with it, be strong and make your life what you want it to be. Tweet