I think in many cases the "other woman" are innocent. My best friend called me about a month ago telling me about this great guy she met at the gym. She started to date him and everything seemed great untill she started saying things to him like "how about we go to your house tonight" and he would act funny everytime she asked why she couldn't go to his house. Well, the truth came out........he was married. She now is going through a lot.........she's pissed off at all men (her marriage ended when her husband cheated on her) and feels they are all out for one thing and she's also feeling guilty that she was with another womans husband.