No, what I am realy saying is that you want it all. Th real answer is to fix the disparity between men being given custody and women being given custosdy, but you don't want that - you not only want your own freedom, you want to take it away from others to get it.
I am not referring to arranged marriages. I am referring to the fact that you do not want women involved in any kind of politics or decision making, even though political decisions affect women just as much as they affect men.