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Sorry, but I disagree with you again dude. If a guy I'm dating is a certain way which I've come to accept, and suddenly he just springs this "put out or get out" on me, he's outta my life, pronto! I would think he is a moody, untrustworthy, changeable creep.
However, if that same guy stops me one day, and sincerely begins to tell me the rest of the script, without the sudden threat of walking off, then I would probably respond because he has now communicated honestly. By the same token, if after a few days of waiting around for me to respond in kind, I don't, then the guy would be wise to walk away.
That a woman will respond by calling after one of these little games is no proof that she is really interested anyway. She could just be reacting to the sudden loss of power which she has come to expect in this realtionship. For this reason, taking a sincere and honest approach is the best solution for this poster. It won't necessarily guarantee what you want out of this particular relationship, but you will be well on your way to being a much more desirable human being overall.
 

 
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