Re: sexless relationship

You should have a talk with her.
ANd not to be superficial but I mean, how are you physically? How is your confidence in how you are physically?
I guarantee this is something you are putting out there, almost certainly a vibe of some sorts. ANd I dont mean that to put you down, but there is a reason we attract what we do.
Do you feel confident in your looks/sex appeal/sexual abilities? I ask that question with an emphasis on confidence because that IS everything. I have known overweight men, men with messed up teeth, messed up skin, etc. Who were some of the sexiest guys around. I can think of two in particular who were actually quite overweight and not that great looking but were VERY sexy..just confident. One of those men got with women ALL over the place...and come to think of it, he WAS an A-hole. BUT-thats NOT what made him attractive, it was his confidence. Maybe some of these guys who are the bad boy or A-hole types are just giving out an air of confidence more than the nice guy types? Because I promise you, while a lot of girls do tend to be attracted to these types, they do not want to be treated like crap. I can tell you Ive been in more than one abusive relationship with men who I had NO IDEA were absuive jerks, they seemed like the best guys ever when we started dating. So obviously it wasnt something I looked for, it was their confidence that got me.

Anyways, Im not saying you are overweight or ugly or anything Im just basically wondering how you feel about yourself? Tweet