Re: How to help my husband with p 0 r n
Well let me tell you my situation and you can draw from it what you will.
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year now and we are very in love and extremely romantic. I find her more attractive than anything and she is as hot as girls come. We have sex every day, and if not, every other day. I still spank the monkey to p 0 r n every once in a while. Maybe 2-3 times a month. I am not addicted to it by any means as I do go long times without even thinking about it. I just find that it spices up my mental imagery gallery a little bit and brings some variety into my sexuality and is completely healthy and fine. It doesnt make me have sex with my girlfriend less or hurt our relationship in any way. My girlfriend even uses p 0 r no every once in a while.
When we got into our relationsip she said how she uses p 0 r n and that she doesnt mind if I do it either but then after about 6 months, as she started to become more in love with me, she started getting mad about it. I told her that it has absolutely nothing to do with her and it doesnt affect her life in any way and that I always have and always will use p 0 r n and that she just has to get over it. I found this to be very hypocritical because she admitted to occasionally using p 0 r n herself. I believe that girls who get mad about this suffer from self esteem issues and need to get over thier issues of jealousy.
But what do i know?? I would go to a relationship counseler and ask them what to do about it, not work solely from this post on curezone!
In conclusion, me and my girlfriend have gotten over this issue and we are very happy together. I hope you and your husband get there too!