I feel the same way when my husband does this t not only makes me feel likehe doesnt find me attractive but in a way i feel that he is cheating. We have fought and fought and fought over it. nothing ever comes of it and it really hurts me too. I have even gone as far as to block the p 0 r n on the computer and throw away his p 0 r n videos. yes this causes a fight but he usually shuts up because he knows he is doing wrong. i have asked this same ? and everyone always tells me that i need to get him in to a support group for p 0 r n addicted people but that makes me more nervous so i just continue with what i am doing and it helps me to feel a little better.