Re: TO Jophil28 only!
Point taken - and I do appreciate your frankness.
But if you got to know me in person you would soon realize that I am not the type of person to let anyone walk all over me!
And while I repect Dr. Phil and his unique approach to counceling, things are never as simple, cut and dry as they seem on the surface.
I have just about reached my limit with her - believe me!
Even if I were to call it quits I will still have to deal with her for the rest of my life because of our son - so I want to be sure I am doing the right thing and all other options have been exhausted before I throw in the towel.
I don't know from where your spiritual beliefs lie, but I believe in Karma. That is to say there is always a reason why things happen to you and people are brought into your life. The ultimate goal is obviously to be more like your Higher Power - whatever name he may go by - and spiritual enlightenment.
I apologize if I offended you and your post was in fact sincere.
Doug