Re: What about the guys that are trying?

Paulette,

We were going to a marriage counselor - as one of her 'demands' - but as soon as he started to put some of the issues on her and that she shared responsibility, she started saying that he was pushing her to make decisions she wasn't ready to. Evently, she decided we were wasting our time because she felt that unless we could become friends again we were NEVER going to have a marriage!

She is always saying that she wants to go out and have some fun, but when I am around her she becomes very vindictive. She will go out with her sister or daughter (18) and meet other guys which she swears are 'just friends' and all she is doing is having fun. She treats total strangers better than me - she even invited her ex-husband to spend Christmas Day with them. When I ask why she can't be that nice to me - her husband - she says that their not trying to get into her life!

As I'm writing this I'm beginning to realize how much it sounds like a really bad soap-opera... :>} Tweet