There certainly is no perfect church, rather, perfect people. I am going through this right now because I've been disappointed in the last 3 churches I havee been to. But I'm stayingput, not wanting to give in to the temptation of not assembbying together with other believers. Guess who would like for that to happen????!
I agree with you here Ev, it's not the message, it's the delivery that changes our perception.
I'm glad self righteousness or clicks are the furthest things from what I encounter in the churches I go to, hearing your concerns makes me want to repent to the Lord for being so picky about my own turf. I realize I'm haggling over small potatoes. I hope all who have to deal with these sorts of things in your churches will find your own group of supportive brethren and prayer partners.