Don't feel bad, your not alone. I'm 37 and was recently told that I need all my teeth pulled. I was hoping for caps, but I hardly have any bone left so my options are very limited. I know I'm going to put it off as long as I can because like you I can't help but think about my age, my appearance and the fact that I don't want my teeth to come out at night. Even though I'm married I can't help but feel my husband will look at me differently. Maybe we think to much :). Anyways, I don't know of any support groups, but if you find any, would you please let me know? Thanks and the very best of luck to you!