Re: Any men falsely accused of rape / sexual abuse?

I'm very sorry to read of your experiences, but there are a couple of things that need clarification, here. 

1.  You are cohabitating with the soon-to-be-ex-wife who is taking a host of prescribed and street drugs for what purpose?

2.  You are sleeping in the same bed with this person that you are divorcing?  Why?

3.  Are there children involved in this mess?

The best suggestion that I can offer you is for you to get involved in some serious counseling therapy, hire a strong divorce attorney, hire a criminal defense attorney, and MOVE OUT.  If there are children involved, file for full custody of them, unless you're using street drugs, as well. 

This is not going to end well, even under the best of circumstances.  The situation is a mess that is exacerbated by drug use/abuse, and sleeping in the same bed with the very person that you're separating/divorcing. 

Best wishes to you on this difficult journey.