Look beyond Labels: UPDATED

Don't go by labels.  What type of person is she? What is her character and her values?  Do they match your values?  How does she react to disappointments?  

Examples of people with all the correct labels: Rich, Religious, Prestigious but fall short of good values and morals.

For example, this man preached for over 11 years in one of the biggest churches in the nation and he was allowed to present the sermon below over three times to the youth in the church.  He is in jail for sex offenses.

HOW THE "GOSPEL" SPREAD: Here are just eight of the men affiliated with First Baptist Church or educated at Hyles-Anderson—most of them pastors—who scattered around the nation committing crimes.

http://www.chicagomag.com/Chicago-Magazine/January-2013/Let-Us-Prey-Big-Troub...

Fundamental Seduction: The Jack Hyles Case:

http://www.amazon.com/Fundamental-Seduction-Jack-Hyles-Case/dp/1481208683/ref...

In the links below, a politician, elected by the Tea Party, encourages his wife and lovers to have many abortions. He is also a Doctor.  His wife had two abortions and there is a recording of him urging his mistress, who was also his patient, to get a late term abortion in Atlanta. (The rich will always have access to abortions.)

http://www.slate.com/blogs/the_slatest/2012/11/16/scott_desjarlais_scandal_te...

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/10/10/scott-desjarlais-abortion-pro-life_n...

Would you want any relative of yours to marry these men?

Don't go by labels.  Know her character and her heart.  However, if you are upset and tied in knots about the situation and cannot find any peace, then you need to let go of this relationship.