Please first fall passionately in love with my Lord Jesus and then see if you can still say that you would be anywhere near as happy with a woman who is not in love with Him as you would be with a woman who is. Being romantically involved with an unbeliever would only dampen and quench your relationship with my Lord, it has no other choice. If you want to grow in intimacy with my Lord, it would be unwise to throw a wet blanket on it. Blessings.