JTM---I didn't realize that you had posted in this forum, too. You should have cross-posted. Did you look at the responses that you got in the "Abuse", "Rape" and "Victims of Crime" threads?
I'm glad you came back here. Please look at your post in the other threads. There is lots of excellent advice for you there.
I hope that you take action immediately! I can't stress this enough---go to the post you made in the forums I mentioned---and take the advice given to you there.
Please, please, please get going! It's long past time for you to end this nightmare and get this perv out of your lives.