If you don't do it her way

Then you are WRONG WRONG WRONG! She thinks she is right about everything. Just because she has 'studied the works of the three healers' doesn't mean squat. THere is so much more out there. And each person and each situation is individual.

It really is too bad that she is offended that someone finds healing in a direction that doesn't correspond with her rigid belief system. If she were a true 'healer' it would be good feelings all around, and she wouldn't attack someone for having a different opinoin, or come to a different answer for themselves.

It's like trying to shove Christianity down the throat of an amazonian nomad. Doesn't fit for their world.