Sorry you think I was too rough, but we call this TOUGH LOVE!!! If he was going to kill his self he would of done it but what he needs is alternatives from a person who has been there, done that and resolved that. Have you been there, done that and resolved it, maybe??? Not just my religion of Islam believes that but also Catholic and christians. Most religions believe only the insane escape such a punishment and Scarface is not insane. He is a very strong individual with a few issues. Like me he writes for advice and help and love. The only reason I wrote that was to help not hinder, if everyone could imagine theirself in boiling water for one minute, I bet they would act different. It sure changed my life.
The reason I was so concerned about what to do about my cats, was because I am afraid of Allah, not you. Out of 29 post you were the only one who criticized me maybe because the other 29 know that I am having a hard time myself.
May God guide you to the right path and may God forgive the both of us.